Sometimes we look at situations that others face and express what we think they should do or how we think they should behave. We may be tempted to offer unsolicited advice and pass judgement when that advice is not taken. God requires us to focus on our own walk. That means showing others that you care, while trying not to control them. Be supportive of them by letting them know you are there for them. Let God guide and direct them, while you trust God to guide your steps.
“and that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you.” 1 Thessalonians 4:11